Sxx should never hurt, of course. But painful sxx is a common enough issue that it actually has a medical name. Dyspareunia, or painful intercourse, is any persistent or recurrent genital pain that occurs before, during, or after penetrative sxx.
Here Are The Best Positions For Sxx
Woman on top
It doesn’t matter if your partner is laying down on the bed or floor or sitting in a chair; all that matters is that you’re the one on top.
It allows you to control the pace and depth of penetration. This is particularly helpful if the pain is due to deep penetration.
Try having your partner lie on their back and bend their legs with their feet flat on the mattress. Climb on top and face their feet, so you can lean against their thighs and grind as you arch forward.
Sure it’s the laziest sxx position but doing it on your sides is also great if you experience pain during deep penetration.
The butt serves as a cushion, and the position allows the woman to control the depth of a thrust by raising or lowering their leg.
You can also take charge of the speed of the pumping and grinding, encouraging your partner to slow down if it’s starting to feel uncomfortable.
Don’t underestimate the power of a few fingers or a tongue. If penetration is too much to bear, outercourse or mutual masturbation and/or oral sxx is always an option. Penetration is not necessary to have great, orgasmic sexual experiences.
Consider a session of 69, or have your partner treat you to oral sxx or clitoral touching, so you can lie back and just enjoy all the incredible sensations.
A great position for women to try if they have pain (the bottom or posterior portion of the vaginal opening) is rear vagina entry, with both partners on their knees.
This allows the man to gently push his penis in a downward direction and lessen the pressure at that spot.
Consider positions that allow for more clitoral rubbing, so you can distract from discomfort caused by penetration.
Lie on your stomach and have your partner approach you from behind, but encourage him to remain still.
Put your hand under your outer labia so that you can grind against him while caressing your clitoris to orgasm.
If deeper penetration is what leads to pain, play with positions that allow for shallow penetration. This one also offers the benefit of stimulating the first few inches of the vagina, often referred to as the orgasmic platform.
Have your partner stand behind you, and place your hands on the back of a chair. Bend over the chair a little and pop up your booty, so your partner can enter you.
While your partner grips your back or butt, move your hips in slow, shallow circles, so you hit all the nerve endings toward the opening of your vagina.